Formal events are part of the chapter, but they are not the full experience. Brotherhood is built when someone has a place to go after class, when older members help younger brothers prepare for an interview or when the same group continues to show up for one another through different stages of college.
Beta Delta includes brothers with different majors, hometowns, interests and career goals. The chapter does not erase those differences. It gives members enough shared time and responsibility to understand one another and build relationships that would be unlikely to form otherwise on a campus as large as Rutgers.